My heart broke yesterday when one of my students came to me after school.
She asked me earlier in the day if I'd be here after school because she wanted to talk to me. CC is a beginner English speaker who came to the U.S. a few years ago for about a year, then returned to Mexico. She came back in August 2011 & it has been so fun to teach her & get to know her. She is somewhat quiet if she doesn't know you & has the sweetest nature about her.
She came into my room right after school & said, "Miss, I can't stay today, will you be here tomorrow?" I told her yes, but then I asked her what she needed to talk about. She hesitated & didn't want to start the conversation. I kept asking & told her just to tell me what it was about & that we would talk more about it later.
Finally, after a minute or so of fidgeting & thinking (I'm sure trying to translate the words in her head, mixed with "I don't know if I want to start this now..."), her eyes filled up with tears & she said, "I miss my mom."
I opened my arms immediately & held her, telling her I was so sorry. I didn't know what to say. It sucks. I actually have 3 girls from Mexico who live with extended family in Austin because their parents are back in Mexico.
I understand these parents are sending their kids to live here to get a good education, but it is so hard to be that far from your parents & siblings for this long. They get to see them at Christmas during the school year & that's it! By law, we must educate these children & I'm so thankful that I have this job. I know I have the best job on campus, getting to work with these incredible students. I hear them talk about their schools in Mexico & I know they are getting a good education there. So, sometimes I ask myself if sending them to the US by themselves is really "better" for them.